Hello there! I'm a 51-year-old guy who's recently embarked on a new chapter of life after a many years marriage. Standing at 5'11" and 265lbs, I've been on a journey of self-improvement, shedding 75lbs in the last year and aiming to continue that progress. While I've always considered myself bi, recent experiences have me leaning more towards the gay side of the spectrum. I've explored this aspect of myself and found genuine enjoyment in it. What I'm really seeking is meaningful connections and genuine friendships, rather than fleeting encounters. I'm all about building a comfortable, drama-free environment where we can just enjoy each other's company and have a good time. I'm an easygoing guy who values authenticity and honesty. I'm not big on drama and prefer to keep things simple and enjoyable. While I'm not a heavy drinker, I'm 420 friendly and open to new experiences and adventures. When it comes to intimacy, I'm more of a bottom than a top, and I enjoy exploring that dynamic with the right person. I'm masculine and moderately hairy, if that's your thing. I'm on the lookout for someone who shares similar values and is looking for genuine connections. Whether it's grabbing coffee, going for a hike, or simply chilling at home, I'm up for it all as long as we're enjoying each other's company. If you're someone who's into meaningful conversations, laughter, and exploring life's adventures together, then I think we'll get along just fine. Let's chat and see where things go!

My Ideal Person Men over 40, TS/TG, or Man/Woman Couple

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The middle of a park, A dark back alley, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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